Thanks floyd. I have an appointment with a lawyer tomorrow at 3 for a consultation.
Just watched the movie 'courageous' with my 18 year old son. Basically forced him to watch it He didn't get much out of it, that movie tears me to pieces. But, until you have children of your own...most of the messages in a movie like that have no relevance.
My 21 yr old found me crying in the bathroom today, sitting on the side of the tub in the dark. Got a much needed hug. Somewhat sorry she was exposed to that but then again it was real and i suppose sometimes one gets the privilege of leaning on their children.
The coldness does hurt like hell...would be easier to be angry but i learned that lesson a long time ago in AA. Just a mask for the pain.
me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6