I understand why it is upsetting and makes you feel as if they are taking sides. Try to look at it from the perspective of one friend helping another, esp since they cared enough about your feelings to acknowledge how it may make you feel and let you know they weren't taking sides. If her or her H needed a place to stay, would you say no?
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
