Paul, I don't know your whole stich. I can tell u that when my exw got involved with her horses in 2009 my life changed. She abandoned everything and everyone in her life including our daughter. My exw makes a lot of money, she is actually a well known writer and illustrator. Chances are that many of everyone's kids here read or saw her drawings and books. I do ok and paid almost 90% of the bills. But I didn't earn much compared to her. I remember when she got into the horse that the UPS truck was at my house every other day delivering horse stuff. I didn't mind either. I actually was very happy for her. It was my idea that she go and by a horse. She did, a very expensive one. The horse world is a very strong community and hard to compete with. My exw is a children book illustrator and many at the barn are children. In looking back she reminds me of Michael Jackson. U know "I gave them milk and cookies".

Focus on you. I know u are new here and probably having a hard time focusing. I remember those days. It will get better. Different but better.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden