Linda, you're going to do great. You made a tough decision, but you took the time to think it through and state your boundaries.

Your h is crazy right now and not thinking clearly. Let him figure out how to get to Russia and take care of himself. As a fellow "fixer", I understand that you want to make sure he has a place to stay, etc., but he made his choice and he needs to deal with the consequences.

You are so very strong and all of us are here for you. And just think how great it'll be to come home and not have to worry what some crazy guy is up to in your living room. And no more booties or disgusting food in the kitchen!

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13