Thanks LITB- that's so kind of you. You have helped me so much along the way.

I will think about it Ruby. I see your point. My fear of the kids being disappointed after this trip is really holding me back

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home