I know the reason is not what you expected, but it sounds like you handled it well. Removing him from the plan would be something you did anyway, and removing your name from the bank accounts will be the next step.

H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14