Thanks K....my mom happened to call today and she said the same to kust tell him finacially I wasnt able. Im glad he didnt call for that reason though.

Its weird that I havent talked to him in almost 2 months now all the sudden he has to call about this....

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope