Yep, able to put a star on day 1. And, I feel so much better now that I have a plan and a goal...as small as it is.

H came home from work and was exhausted...only had a few hours of sleep since going to friends on NYE then working early NYD. He spent time with the kids, read, played games. He was kind to me. He talked about renewing his company club membership in order to get cheap tickets to plays/shows this year. (We used to go to plays/shows a couple times a year)

Baby steps. I agree though, soooo glad NYE/NYD is over. That was a tough one.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014