That [censored] but at least you have clarity. I'm only now getting to the bottom of things with my W.
Parents usually put on blinders and take their kids' side no matter what. If she's living in the basement feeling stuck, it's probably easier for them to think you're a villain refusing to offer support.
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.
