Trust NOTHING that she says and only half of what you see!
I got the same speech, the same text, the same story. Everything was our fault. My W said to my face "If you think we are ever getting back together you live in Fantasyland!"
Here is what I wish I did before I was in the situation you are in RIGHT NOW- What are your boundaries? Define YOUR "game over" in your mind (and stick to it)and continue on this wild ride......
I did not. I was so damn scared of losing my family that I was "agreeing" to some pretty ridiculous things. I was a spineless loser.
She is at the point of no return right now- knowing this, remember that you need to co-parent with her the next 8 years and get yourself through this process so that you dont need years to recover financially and emotionally on the back end!
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
