Is your h working? He can be tracked down there and served.
I'm very sorry that things have gone from nuts to absolute insanity...you are far better off w/little contact. I do hope that you can wrap up your divorce this year and be able to breathe a sigh of relief very soon.
Please take care of yourself and your boys. It will get better and I think 2014 will be your year.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
