Wife Said She's Done - Pt. 2 ..and Still Hopeful

[OneDay]

Why did her action cause such emotion from you?

Because she has never done this before, nor did she tell me or know what her plan for the evening was. Even If she got too drunk to drive (which has never happened) she would call/text me to let me know whats going on alot earlier than 4am. I was upset and worried. It then turned into anger when she came home in the morning and acted as If it was a normal morning, as if she just returned from the Grocery Store.

So to recap a bit about last night. She is Done, Done, Done and I can fully see it. I still feel sad that she is Done with me, but I've completely exctepted it and I feel A LOT better about myself emotionally.

The more I thought about last night (see 2 posts above) I think I did the majority of talking (defiantly about Attorney issue.) I did do a far share of listening and a lot validating, but I came back with a lot of my concerns. She's just acting so Willy-Nilly about the whole D and kept saying "I don't Know, I've never been through this before" or I haven't thought about that". (she thinks the courts/attorney are the ones who decide everything) I had to voice my opinion and I did it calm, cool and collect. I told her I am more than willing to try and work this D out ourselves and use mediation instead of spending all this money on the attorneys. The items were talking about splitting are not even worth what both attorneys are going to cost us. She thinks it might be a good Idea too, but not sure. I said I understand that, and to think it over and get back with me either way.