Paul, Rick1963, who still posts in Surviving the Big D, had a wife who became very involved in the horse world.

His old posts are here http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rted&page=4

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss