I for one, am glad 2013 is behind me. One full calendar year without H and I made it...YAY!!!
Things have progressed very destructively on ex's part over the past couple of months...too much to write anymore.
He is full blown crazy, and now, our kids have reached their limit. No more visits with H until he straightens things out...which I know will never happen. Sad really.
It is definitely easier dealing with someone who lives away, and now with my ex "hiding" from every creditor, court, me (haha), the kids, family, friends, the cops...a weight has been lifted off of me.
My ex still blames me for things...his life [censored] and he is soooo jealous of mine.
Honestly, I have been done for a while, and now because he is MIA, I can't proceed with a divorce either...no address on record to send anything to.
My holiday's were great with the exception of a brief stunt with my ex where he called the cops....trust me, he got burned on that one.
So this New Year is a life of just me and the boys...and right now, it will NOT include the ex what so ever...he has been blocked from communications with my boys as well as visitation. I have also blocked ex from contacting me other than email. At this moment should he need anything, he will have to send me an email or take me to court (and the latter isn't going to happen because he is knee deep in it).
I just wanted to pop in and say "HI" and let everyone know I was alive and doing better than okay! I read threads here and there and I am right there with you all!!!
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
