3-I agree with the posters. I sense a new level of growth trying to emerge. Kind of like the old saying that things get worse before they get better. You've got a great track record of goal setting and achieving. Melissa recently did a post where she reflected on her sitch and how far she's come. It was an eye opener and testament to our accomplishments.

I know you'll do the same. I look forward to your post and hopefully you'll have a truly cathartic experience.

For me, there was so much planning and anxiety surrounding Christmas that I completely ignored the potential fall out of NYE/NYD. A time of celebration/renewal etc. I think many of us have been caught off guard with the reality of our M setting in and are being forced to do some reflection and goal setting. We're here with you!


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014