Wif wants Divorce, I do Not 2

[tough spot]

i thought the mil liked you and earlier told you anything with OM would never work out?

If that is the case, that is kind of weird. However, now maybe they need to be put into the 'don't talk to category'?

Are you guys getting lawyers or planning on mediation?

My wife is going to a lawyer in a couple of hours. She invited me alone (it is a free consultation).....I will turn down that very open offer with politeness. Have some feelers out to people for possible good lawyers and ones to avoid.