Poor kid- It is so hard to be a girl these days. I personally think those skeleton models are so unsexy. I watch what I eat very carefully- but somehow, didnt obsess too much as a kid. Is she into sports? My D14 has been eating half her food- very unlike her- this week and wanted to go to the gym- but she swim teams almost everyday. I worry when the exercise drops off what will she think or do? I find an interest in sports slows down me "living to eat, rather than eating to live" mentality that pops up. I know you are sort of a jock! I hope things continue to get easier for you all, Shay