Update - got two more texts from H this morning before I had a chance to reply to last night's.

First said "Please ignore my last message.....Was have a moment" and the second "I was having a bad night".

I actually responded to those by saying "Oh sorry, hadn't seen the initial text, my phone was off"

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks