Even if she has, that doesn't change anything. I haven't responded to the text yet, and when I do my response is going to be "It's your decision. You chose not to be part of my life so I no longer have any input in yours".
If this had happened a month or so ago, maybe things would have been different. Back then, the door was still wide open. I've come to realize in that time that I have a lot to offer someone without changing to please them, and that while having a man in my life would be a bonus - a very nice bonus mind you - it is not a necessity. Today, that door is closed and double locked. I'm moving on and the only part H is going to play in my life is when it comes to co-parenting our son.
You're right you know, we are at the same point in our sitches This is exactly how I feel at the mo I agree that you should send him that text, but if you're seeing him tonight then maybe it won't matter. I hope your son has a great birthday and that his meal goes ok without any animosity between you all. It's wrong of your H to think that you wouldn't invite your Dad, he's a big part of you and your son's life. H moving back to the UK will be a very selfish action on his part. He will no longer be able to see his son, but then in his MLC state he's probably not bothered at the mo. One day he'll wake up and realised all that he's missed. Have a great time tonight
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
This is exactly how I feel at the mo 