Thanks so much LB and Julie. I was writing my post when you both posted. I feel better this morning. I love the analogy of peeling back an onion. I think that it was spot on. The last time that I had an emotional breakdown was after the "best of both worlds" conversation and right before I imposed the some boundaries. That was a huge positive step in my journey. It actually improved the dynamic with H. I believe that something positive will also come from this experience.
