Hi, Ellie.

Haven't written in a while
but want U to know I keep up
with your sitch and am always
inspired.

You are indeed an awesome mom.
Am very glad for your D that
you're not over-reacting and
are getting her the help she needs.

She sounds awesome, too.
But of course! Her parents
have shown her how to surmount ...

Mt. Whitney!

Food is not just fuel, is it?
Our culture with its focus on
outer beauty does lure ya into
the "looky loo" game, and
self-image takes on great importance.
This is something I continue to work on,
too.

Your D will have a good head start,
addressing this now. Way to go, Ellie!

Over here in my neighborhood
it almost seems like spring,
and I am keeping busy.

February has not only Valentine's day
(my WAH's use-to-be-fave-holiday,
back when he was romantic) but is
also the bday month of both Redhead
and my Ex New Guy.

So I'm going off to a long weekend trip mid-month
with my fave girlfriend.

That way, I don't have to figure out
how to celebrate. I won't be sad, or
reminded of "what's missing" -- I'll
be singing with a pile of pagans
(or whoever's at the retreat).

Thanks so much for the recap of your
recovery. It is very helpful to those
of us still in limboland.

Wait, I'm not in limboland, I'm
in Hopefulness!

Love,

Bridget