How do you want to handle the D? You don't know what she really knows, you know what she says. Unless her attorney is Saul (Breaking Bad reference, sorry) I would think they had a sit down before she signed anything.

Besides, she just wants to be done.

About the household chores, how is not doing what you've agreed to do for the good of your household which includes you and your kids, a 180? You wrote a post last week or so, that said you and wife worked together, split the running of the household, etc.

I don't care if you do chores or not, I don't think that's going to save your marriage but the thought process behind this action or inaction, is what needs to be explored.

If you and a friend were in business 50/50, he's in charge of sales, you're in charge of manufacturing. You and friend have a falling out about a personal issue, maybe Friend thinks you're cheap because you never pick up the tab for dinner. You argue. You think you're right and of course Friend thinks he's right.

Friend feels angry, hurt, disrespected, whatever and starts slacking in his responsibilities in the business.

What would your thoughts on that be?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss