I agree MH, you are giving W waaaaay too much free rent in your head.

Stop focusing on her. You can't fix her. Focus on yourself, on making yourself the spouse that only a fool would leave.

Don't make me break out the real 2x4s or something heavier.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks