one more thing. do what you feel comfortable doing. be a partner, but remember, until she decides you are to stay married and ACT MARRIED she doesn't get to have the full benefits of a doting Husband. Even if you stay together maybe you'd agree more sharing of chores would be better anyway. just my two cents. I'm separated at the moment so, I'm for from perfect at this
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14