one more thing. do what you feel comfortable doing. be a partner, but remember, until she decides you are to stay married and ACT MARRIED she doesn't get to have the full benefits of a doting Husband. Even if you stay together maybe you'd agree more sharing of chores would be better anyway. just my two cents. I'm separated at the moment so, I'm for from perfect at this


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14