Go figure. My wife wanted to ML today and she could have knocked me over with a feather when she told me. I know not to expect it again though. I'm glad someone else had a great day in this department too laugh

In my situation, I put it down to listening, validating, giving her space and being friendly when we interact. Whatever you're doing is obviously working so keep your expectations down and keep doing whatever us working! Stay the course!


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014