Wif wants Divorce, I do Not 2

[hotwheelsaust]

Hi burning heart, I thought I would join in as well. Went back to your first topic to see how and what.
melissag is right, stop initiating firstly, no more photo's.
Start working on yourself first. If she sends you a text, start doing the 48 hour rule (unless it is an emergency type), that is do not reply for 48 hours. Then send her a nice reply. Stop the "I love you", "I miss you", "this reminds me of you", she doesn't want to hear this.
Make her miss you. Make her realise she wants you.
Read those 37 rules and follow them. Where you are now, it is going to be a marathon not a sprint. It will take time, lots of it.
Couple of questions: you are out in the sticks, where you both have been for a while? And she went back home to the city and where the OM is?
This is what made me read about your sitch. My sitch has my W now over 600 miles away. I moved back to the city, while she stayed in the country with the other woman.