Well it seems like he's really doing some thinking.
He's in turmoil.
Keep detaching, its important to validate every one of those things he brings up.
The old "I understand how you feel" or the "I just want you to be happy" is always a good response.
If your using facebook apps to show where you are, or been. I might shut that off, or stop updating for a while. Just to cut down on the tension a bit. That doesn't mean not go out, just stop the tracking part, or however he's looking to find you.
