Hi BH, I have not had a chance to learn about your sitch from the beginning, but wanted to respond to this latest post.

Why did you send the picture to your W? What were your expectations when you sent it, and when you sent the comment about thinking of her? What reaction could she have had that would not have prompted you to say "WTH"?

And to answer the question, WTH . . . who knows? You will drive yourself insane if you keep doing this.

P.S. If you have a few minutes to create a signature, I would recommend it. It really helps others to remember your sitch without having to scroll back a ton.


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14