Hey Tl - glad to see you back on the board. I too was getting a little concerned - you had such a bad day before you went AWOL on us. Just want you to know I am monitoring your sitch.

Sounds like you are getting great advice and that you are getting stronger. Loved the way you handled the cuddling thing. Ya, it's hard not to want to do that (heaven knows I would love to have the opportunity) but you have to do it in order to send a very important message. And regarding the locked door incident, I agree, you don't owe him any more than the apology you gave. You sound like you are transforming into the person you need to be to get through this whole thing. You are starting to have more days of clarity and strength - a good sign - but don't beat yourself up when you have a down or emotional day. Just part of the process.

I wish not only you, but all of us in this crummy situation, to have a new year filled with self-found strength to deal with this stuff (Lord knows it ain't all gonna go away anytime soon), clarity in our decisions, and the faith in ourselves to survive this and live a much more balanced and whole life.

My prayers are with you my friend. Just want you to know I'm thinking of you.

Stop by my spot if you get a chance. Hang in there - you're doing great!


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BD&S Apr 2,2013 - ILYBINILWY
Filed 2/12/14
OW 11/13
The Universe always strikes you at your weakest point because that’s what most needs strengthening." – Joseph Campbell