Hey pal, do not continue financial ties with her of any kind. Stay away from new loans and credit with her. She is thinking ahead. Trust me. I got sucked in and this is still being litigated more than a year and a half later. Cover this with your lawyer in detail ASAP. Leave nothing out. Financial ties must be cut. At least for now. It will mess with your net propert division. Do nothing joint from this point on. I am paying the price big time now. I did not listen to some others who had been through it and trusted. Got robbed. I was so stupid I co-signed a car loan believing she was genuine in her working things out. Lots of other messes too. If you are separating, or are already... You must separate finances. It may create tension you want to avoid right now and she may act offended that you don't trust her but it will save a lot more grief. Also, if she really consulted with a lawyer,then she would have been told the same thing. So beware. Please. I feel so bad for you right now. But you need to protect yourself too. I screwed that up.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
