Callie's advice seems good though. As long as you are making sure to protect yourself from STDs, whether you have intimacy or not is really an individual decision. And really, if your H says he is willing to work on the relationship and you think he is, then it seems like asking directly about the role of an OW seems like it SHOULD be on the table.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
