2times: Yeah, thats a good reminder to be prepared for a reaction.
I am sorry you don't have a better handle on what the OW status in your situation is. That must be really frustrating.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."