I got into a conversation with my cousin regarding my D. He went through his D a couple of years ago and our situation is pretty similar. His W left him and he resisted signing a D petition for 2 years. His WAW is still harboring resentment even after 3 years. We agreed on a lot of things especially on relationships.
What I noticed about him was he 'changed' into a different person. He used to be quiet and shy. Now, he's all buffed up. Put on tight shirts and had just one earring. Kind of 'soft'. Hangs around with a similar type of male friends.
Many of us in the family suspected that he 'changed sides'. I mean does anyone really change sexual orientation after traumatic experiences?
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
