My H spends most of his time in India - building his new business dream. Our comm for weeks at a time is confined to texts and phone calls.

He gives every indication that he wants to work on the M but hasn't said so other than he changed his mind about wanting a D and more effort at comm. I have no idea what his commitment is and can't really judge by his actions since we are separated for so long by so much distance.

By avoiding R or OW talk, I have no idea what he is doing and if I ask I have no idea if what I hear about OW is the truth.

Thus, my dilemma of whether or not cutting off intimacy is the right move or not. I have no idea and don't know how to make that judgement from here.

Sorry, Tiger. Didn't mean to hijack your thread.

2T2M


Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013