I’ve been reading all along. Don’t let the “dark voice” in your head to take over. I’m pretty sure that the rumors about OW are true, especially that he said it himself. Ending it with OW doesn’t mean that he will immediately turn to you. I bet it would feel good for you though.
I understand your position about moving. Take your time and process your feelings first.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state