We are all on our own journeys here, and I am on mine.
I agree that Luke seems to want all bases covered before moving in any direction and the past ten years have seen little movement on his end, til recently.
And even now Luke, you SOUND as if your w's words and responses are where you invest your self esteem, even while recognizing, cognitively, that it should not and must not b/c she is Not a giver of positives for you.
My real advice is this observation which I hope you and (we) all take to heart and contemplate on this day, the first day of the New Year. Which is to say... LIFE IS SHORT...
Do what it takes to be happy and stop beating your head against the same brick wall, going down cheese less tunnels.
((( )))
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