Wife got home and asked how my visit went. I stonewalled a bit, knowing she really only wanted to know if i could stay there.
Then she told me she got approved for a new credit card, suggesting we could shift some balances around at 0% apr to lower expenses. In addition, started the ball rolling on possible getting her student loans reduced. All in order to overcome my financial objections and get me gone! Or so my pessimistic mind perceives.
I don't know why she is so against the idea of leaving the kids in the house and her and i staying at our parents on non custody days. I plan on not discussing....see what she comes up with if anything.
me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6