As a fellow second timer, I can honestly say I am so sorry to see you here again.
My H and I did the same thing - "reconciled" (if you can call it that) but he never wanted to address any R issues. Preferred to just ignore that it ever happened. And, the MLC eventually reared it's alien head again.
I agree with Job - it sounds like an EA with OW. And that one is difficult (based on my own experience 7 years ago). She's feeding his ego and building him up ... tough to deal with.
Job has good insight and gives awesome advice. There are a lot of others here who can guide you as well.
The rest of us ... well we are all good at moral support!
Breathe ... take care of you and the children ... take it one day at a time.
2T2M
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
