TTD180, I agree with 2old. You will know when you are ready, I did. And no, not all blokes are the same. Some of us do want to make a proper relationship, whether young or old. Some of us males do have values that we stand by. Some of us males do stick with the woman we have chosen to have a relationship with, through good and bad. In saying that, go slow, have no expectations and keep a lot of your emotions in check. You will have times of thinking to yourself "Am I doing the right thing?". No matter how much you are ready, these thoughts will still come to your mind, they did and do for me. Good luck.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
