Hi Tiger. So glad you checked in. I was beginning to worry a little.
So typical in MLC ... you point how rude or disrespectful they are behaving and they turn it around to something that is wrong with you ... that you are a bad role model.
Nice the way you answered .... yes I am working on that and then relating that his way of seeking change was unacceptable to you.
And not cuddling seems to be a little new for you. If I recall, you usually enjoy that. Glad you said no, that you were fine. That's just reinforcing that his behavior with OW is unacceptable. And, again, typical response - kind of like "you hurt my feelings by rejecting me so I will find a way to hurt you back."
I am wishing for a much better year for you as well as all of us dealing with our spouse's visit to La-La land.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013