Sunday while he was "off" I managed to talk a friend into picking son and I up and letting us dry a load of laundry at their house. And we were invited to stay for dinner, so that was nice. So... I have clean underwear for the week. Woo hoo.

Monday afternoon I walked to the grocery and used a little bit of a gift card I got to get some staples. H called me while I was there and asked where I was and if I wanted a ride home. I explained that I was at the grocery and I didn't mind walking.

I did offer to make H dinner Monday night as a peace offering for the door situation. He asked "what's dinner going to cost me?" I said nothing, that it was a token to make up for locking him out and that was it.

I haven't made him any food since Monday dinner. He keeps going out and eating Subway or something (as I suspected he would).

I don't know what's going to happen with laundry and grocery shopping and crap coming up. H still sees this all as a "competition" I think. So stupid and immature.

I am at the point where if he just stopped being an [censored] and went to live with the OW, I'd still feel like a winner. I am just tired of all the contentious bullcrap.


me-35
WAS-37
T-16 1/2
Son-14 (HF Aspergers)
BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."