I will agree with you Fly...It's funny how sometimes things just hit you and you see yourself and your actions...

I told him just the other day that I felt like all we are doing is playing the blame game and going round and round. We are only focusing on the bad stuff in our M and not the good. We are always trying to defend our actions but not really listening to the other person.

I realize that when I cry and rant I only make myself look bad and unattractive and who wants that??

Right now I feel that with OW in play, I have no hope. Despite the age difference they seem to have a lot in common. I asked him and he did say that they talk and share with each other which is something that has been seriously lacking with us for sometime. They share same degrees/careers.Like the same movies,music,food interests,exercise, etc (My friend said it sounds like he is dating himself, LOL)


M-38;H38
M15
D13 & D7
BD 3/2012