Wow H, that is something to hear back from her so quickly.... So do you believe your W is softening to the point she is or may be able to have contact with you in a comfortable mode? I ask because of the way she worded her text with you and you would know the tone maybe? With respect to your lady friend, has she been divorced? had bad relationships? She could be like so many, worried about a new relationship and hestitant to get too serious. Possible?
Wonka, great to see you here still providing your insight...Dont mean to hijack your thread H and I know you don't mind since we have similiar sitch's. Wonka, so the iceberg is starting to thaw maybe? Your partner initiated a text, WOW... I recall you posting on my thread how you were treated like a stranger for what, 13 years? ugh..To update my sitch for you, things have steadily deteriorated with my WAS. We have hardly any contact now as I feel I just cant keep trying small friendly texts anymore as I get nothing more than her usual short responses. There is just nothing there from her.
There has been new developments I have been told by her daughter. W again quit her latest job after a few months. This is something she has done for years as she can never get along with the other employees. But now her son, takes a pay cut from his check (owns his own lucrative company) and is paying her to watch her grandaughters a couple times a week. She is not getting rich but living within her means.
Also, my sitch doesn't involve OP. Her daughter tells me this voluntarily I do not ask. But from the beginning there has been no other. This means what, that she really destests me so much so she cannot even talk with me even almost 9 months later? She spends a great deal of time online as when she logs onto google she is still in my friends circle with others and I see her. She does not see me however.
Without OP involved it's hard for me to get a handle on why and how she wont speak to me. According to my friend Cadet she is a classic vanisher, left without saying and very little contact since. But she does have family where she is and is with them regularly. I'm not letting her or my sitch keep me from living though. Like you H, I am moving forward. Ha, without another special person as yet, but moving forward indeed.
Thanks for allowing the hijack H, look forward to what you guys might say....It's a new year....Lets live It!! 2old........
