House sold, got new one, family breaking up....

[FloydMan]

To your point AJM...Well she sent me an email saying she wasn't taking the kids today and that she has gone out of town for a few days and will take the kids on the 7th. She did not tell the kids, plush I had plans. She finally sent me an email saying she did not have a backup plan and already left. We had just signed off in court a coup,e weeks ago the access schedule. I asked kids if they knew they would not see their mom for New Years and they did not know. I kept trying to reach her and she finally phoned yesterday and said sorry but she is out of town and will see them on the 7th and had no backup plan. She said if I had plans that to leave the kids at her place or mine and they will be fine on their own for a day. What and idiot. So I cancelled my plans obviously (had a date) and spending it with kids. They are showing me love. For someone who fought a long and expensive legal battle for the kids, and claimed the kids should not be without their mother for more than 3-4 days through legal letters and court pleadings she is out to lunch. This will make it 10 days and nights she will not see them. The custody battle was all for more support money. She is nuts and incredibly selfish. Manipulating. She had this trip planned and waited until she left so there is no choice or Cunning. Bad mommy.
I know it is said to GAL all this past year, but I certainly have not been able to except some infrequent dates and a crazy girl for a bit part time and discreet. This will be the next 10 years of my life....I gotta get used to it.