Just received a very impersonal text from H for New Years.
Yesterday he had a great day here. When he turned up I went out. I came back 3 hours later, made lunch, watched movies. Had a back rub each. He kept staring at me, kept reaching his hand to me but not touching me. I ignored it all. Just let him be. After the back rub he got very tired and went for a nap in the spare room. When he woke he virtually ran out of the house.
I had the feeling that he was uncomfortable with how comfortable his day had been.
Knowing all this, knowing that his message is probably just him trying to withdraw from us, doesn't help. I do feel hurt. I'd rather receive no message.
No spinning, just human emotions.......
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13