Hi Mimi,

It sounds like you have taken the steps to detach. Great job on blocking and unfriending, that will help a lot with detachment, it definitely did for me.

I like the separation from the joint accounts idea, and your plan to make sure the direct deposit switched successfully. Hopefully it's not too much of a pain to get your name removed.

You gave yourself a timeline, and are sticking to it. Well done! I hope 2014 treats you well. You have us here for support whenever you need us!


H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14