My wife just came to me downstairs (private from the kids) and said she talked to a lawyer today. She asked what normally happens in this type situation and the lawyer supposedly told her 'usually the man moves out of the house, as she is the primary care giver, that way less traumatic for the children).
I asked, 'are we separating or getting a divorce' and she said she thinks they both lead to the same end, at least in this situation. Is she really the primary caregiver? yes, she picks up the kids and drops them off to school, however we both work. Arrrggg, least of my concerns. Semantics.
How can i stall to give time for 180's etc to work? Do i meekly go away? I fear if i tell her to get lost and she has to move out.....next step hiring of lawyers? Last thing I can afford or really want! Wow, life is crumbling down around me! _________________________ me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6
me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6
