Second, you cant bring up ANY relationship talk in my opinion, yours, his, theres??.

Its going to just bring in more confrontation. That's the last thing you need right now. I'm not saying to just turn your cheek, but you def. need to find a way to let it roll off ya for a bit until your in control of yourself a little bit better.

Don't talk to him about whether he can use his work phone or not, what are you doing for yourself?

I throw my 2 cents in here and there, but listening to Snod's advice is going to be your best bet. I'll be here for emotional support.