Happy NEW Year and may 2014 be a great year for us all Over at the other forum I've been having mixed messages over whether I should enter another R or not. I think the girls get me, that it is just flirting at the mo and it's not like I'm entering into a heavy serious relationship. The lad I was PMing has reconnected with me and is trying to give me advice about how long I should wait, etc. He's obviously not reading everything I write - how my M has been dead for years and how I'm ready to move on. Yes it's only been 8 months, but what a roller coaster of 8 months! I've said to him that I appreciate his advice and I won't pursue this flirting. Little does he know hehe He said something that I will copy and paste on here and ask the males on this board for their advice - Anyway T gonna be a bit brutal here but even if you did hook up with that guy you'd only end up in a mess again. Believe me l'm a male and most guys have a hard enough time staying loyal even with a young gf but an older one not a hope, it never lasts . l mean h took of twice , you don't want that again. Is he right? I don't want to get hurt too soon again, I am looking for a light hearted R with another guy but he's talking like I'm going to be dumped after a week or two! I know the guy that's flirting with me likes me and he seems a decent sort. He doesn't seem the type to mess me around, especially as I know that he's been hurt before as I overheard him say to someone else that he doesn't want to live with anyone ever again! Another silly comment that he made was that I shouldn't introduce him to my son too soon. Why is that silly? Because my son already knows him! lol. Just goes to prove that he doesn't read what I put I also put in his PM that I'm moving on to protect myself from anymore hurt. I know that H is being nice at the mo, but I still don't know if that is just for Christmas or not. By fully detaching, whatever H throws at me I'll not get as upset as I have been doing. I'll even be pleased for him if he announces he's got a new G/F hehe Anyway, must go and finish cooking the dinner
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Over at the other forum I've been having mixed messages over whether I should enter another R or not. I think the girls get me, that it is just flirting at the mo and it's not like I'm entering into a heavy serious relationship.