NAP,

I've tried to pop down here when im on, but that's not much these days.

Please copy and paste this link back up into newcomers. You will got a lot of great advice up there. And it looks like your going to be needing some advice that's proactive.

This forum here is actually for the spouse that walks away, not the LBS.

So hopefully i'll see you up there very soon. And we can get you a lot more help.

We def need to get you some support.